If you’ve found yourself putting off important
tasks over and over again, you’re not alone. In fact, many people procrastinate
to some degree – but some are so chronically affected by procrastination that
it stops them fulfilling their potential and disrupts their careers.
The key to controlling this destructive habit
is to recognize when you start procrastinating, understand why it happens (even
to the best of us), and take active steps to manage your time and outcomes
better.
What is Procrastination?
In a nutshell, you procrastinate when you put
off things that you should be focusing on right now, usually in favor of doing
something that is more enjoyable or that you’re more comfortable doing.
According to psychologist Professor Clarry
Lay, a prominent writer on procrastination, procrastination occurs when there’s
“a temporal gap between intended behavior and enacted behavior.” That is,
procrastination is occurring when there’s a significant time period between
when people intend to do a job, and when they actually do it.
How to Overcome
Procrastination
Follow these steps to deal with and control
procrastination:
Step 1: Recognize That
You're Procrastinating
If you're honest with yourself, you probably
know when you're procrastinating. But to be sure, take our Are You a
Procrastinator? self test.
Here are some useful indicators that will help
you know when you’re procrastinating:
·
Filling your day with
low priority tasks from your To Do List.
·
Reading e-mails
several times without starting work on them or deciding what you’re going to do
with them.
·
Sitting down to start
a high-priority task, and almost immediately going off to make a cup of coffee.
·
Leaving an item on
your To Do list for a long time, even though you know it's important.
·
Regularly saying
"Yes" to unimportant tasks that others ask you to do, and filling
your time with these instead of getting on with the important tasks already on
your list.
·
Waiting for the “right
mood” or the “right time” to tackle the important task at hand.
Notes:
Putting off an unimportant task isn't necessarily procrastination: it may just be good prioritization!
Putting off an unimportant task isn't necessarily procrastination: it may just be good prioritization!
Putting off an important task for a short
period because you’re feeling particularly tired isn’t necessarily
procrastination either, so long as you don’t delay starting the task for more
than a day or so, and this is only an occasional event. If you have a genuine
good reason for rescheduling something important, then you’re not necessarily
procrastinating. But if you’re simply “making an excuse” because you really
just don’t want to do it, then you are.
In his 1986 article “At Last, My Research
Article on Procrastination”, published in the Journal of Research on
Personality, Lay noted that procrastinatory behavior is independent of need
for achievement, energy, or self-esteem. In other words, you may be a
procrastinator even if you’re confident in your own abilities, energetic, and
enjoy achieving things.
Step 2: Work Out WHY
You're Procrastinating
Why you procrastinate can depend on both you
and the task. But it's important to understand which of the two is relevant in
a given situation, so that you can select the best approach for overcoming your
reluctance to get going.
One reason for procrastination is that people
find a particular job unpleasant, and try to avoid it because of that.
Most jobs have unpleasant or boring aspects to them, and often the best way of
dealing with these is to get them over and done with quickly, so that you can
focus on the more enjoyable aspects of the job.
Another cause is that people are disorganized.
Organized people manage to fend of the temptation to procrastinate, because
they will have things like prioritized
to-do lists and schedules
which emphasize how important the piece work is, and identify precisely when
it’s due. They’ll also have planned how long a task will take to do, and will
have worked back from that point to identify when they need to get started in
order to avoid it being late. Organized people are also better placed to avoid
procrastination, because they know how to break the work down into manageable
“next steps”.
Even if you’re organized, you can feel
overwhelmed by the task. You may doubt that you have the skills or
resources you think you need, so you seek comfort in doing tasks you know
you're capable of completing. Unfortunately, the big task isn't going to go
away – truly important tasks rarely do. You may also fear success as much as
failure. For example, you may think that success will lead to you being swamped
with more requests to do this type of task, or that you’ll be pushed to take on
things that you feel are beyond you.
Surprisingly, perfectionists are often
procrastinators, as they can tend to think "I don't have the right skills
or resources to do this perfectly now, so I won't do it at all."
One final major cause of procrastination is
having underdeveloped decision-making skills. If you simply can’t decide
what to do, you’re likely to put off taking action in case you do the wrong
thing.
Step 3: Adopt
Anti-Procrastination Strategies
Procrastination is a habit – a deeply
ingrained pattern of behavior. That means that you won’t just break it
overnight. Habits only stop being habits when you have persistently stopped
practising them, so use as many approaches as possible to maximize your chances
of beating procrastination. Some tips will work better for some people than for
others, and for some tasks than others. And, sometimes, you may simply need to
try a fresh approach to beat the “procrastination peril”!
These general tips will help motivate
you to get moving:
·
Make up your own
rewards. For example, promise yourself a piece of tasty flapjack at lunchtime
if you've completed a certain task. And make sure you notice how good it feels
to finish things!
·
Ask someone else to
check up on you. Peer pressure works! This is the principle behind slimming and
other self-help groups, and it is widely recognized as a highly effective
approach.
·
Identify the
unpleasant consequences of NOT doing the task.
·
Work out the cost of your
time to your employer. As your employers are paying you to do
the things that they think are important, you're not delivering value
for money if you're not doing those things. Shame yourself into getting going!
If you're procrastinating because you're
disorganized, here's how to get organized!
·
Keep a To-Do list
so that you can’t “conveniently” forget about unpleasant or overwhelming tasks.
·
Use an Urgent/Important
Matrix to help prioritize your to-do list so that you can’t try
to kid yourself that it would be acceptable to put off doing something on the
grounds that it’s unimportant, or that you have many urgent things which ought
to be done first when, in reality, you’re procrastinating.
·
Become a master of scheduling
and project planning,
so that you know when to start those all-important projects.
·
Set yourself
time-bound goals:
that way, you’ll have no time for procrastination!
·
Focus on one task at a
time.
If you're putting off starting a project
because you find it overwhelming, you need to take a different approach.
Here are some tips:
·
Break the project into
a set of smaller, more manageable tasks. You may find it helpful to create an action plan.
·
Start with some quick,
small tasks if you can, even if these aren't the logical first actions. You'll
feel that you're achieving things, and so perhaps the whole project won't be so
overwhelming after all.
If you’re procrastinating because you find the
task unpleasant:
·
Many procrastinators
overestimate the unpleasantness of a task. So give it a try! You may find that
it’s not as bad as you thought!
·
Hold the unpleasant
consequences of not doing the work at the front of your mind.
·
Reward yourself for
doing the task.
Finally, if you’re procrastinating because you
can’t decide what action to take, and are putting off making a decision
because you’re nervous about making the wrong choice, see our decision-making
section. This teaches a range of powerful and effective
decision-making techniques.
Remember: the longer you can spend without
procrastinating, the greater your chances of breaking this destructive habit
for good!
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